Consider the source

You will always have people giving you relationship advice, but how do you decide what advice to listen to?  Consider the source.

As you get to know more people, you will come to realize that most married people are not happily married, and even most people who are dating aren’t really that happy with the person they are with.  However, many of these people still feel qualified to give you advice about relationships.

Think about it this way; if your friend is always fixing her own car, but her car never runs right, would you listen to her advice about what is wrong with your car?  No, you wouldn’t.  So why do we listen to relationship advice from people who have never had a healthy, happy relationship?

Lots of people will give you their opinions on lots of things, and there is nothing wrong with that.  People like to share, and most of the time, I think that they mean well, and are really trying to help you.  But just because they mean well doesn’t mean that you should listen to what they have to say.  The next time someone is giving you advice about your relationships, look at their relationships before you consider how valid that advice really is.

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