Sometimes you’re working on being emotionally healthy, and having healthy relationships, but it just won’t work out. It might be time to evaluate whether the person you’re dealing with is healthy.
Why? Because you can’t have a healthy relationship with an unhealthy person. No matter how hard you try, you can’t overcome another person’s issues. Either you meet them where they are, or you end the relationship. What you don’t want to do is hope the other person will change, and start being emotionally healthy. They are who they are.